In the words of Joyce Gottlieb, writer, coach and psychotherapist, “…we grow in connection with others.” The following article (written by a person who learned English later in life) gives concrete steps on enhancing your communication by inspiring and influencing the people around you, e.g., Rule #3, compliment to affect people’s sense of self.
Yes, not until you make a connection with the other first—will your words be heard and understood. I want all of my clients to read this and practice the steps. I will as well.
The Six Keys to Positive Communication